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There are two types of cheaters in this world; blatant, full-on sleeping-with-other-people-behind-your-back cheaters and the subtle, sneaky, low-key cheaters who might never actually sleep with other people, but are definitely not being what most dictionaries would identify as “faithful”.
While some of these might just be signs he has close female friends, they might lead you to a smart cheat:
1. He has a female friend he keeps texting
This could just mean he has female friends he is close to and flirts with, but you know something fishy is going on if the texts make you to want to check his phone.
2. He is super flirty with your girls
You have watched him flirt with girls when you are out to places and it made you feel like a stupid girl. You told yourself he’s just a flirty guy, but then you watched the girls’ body language, and she clearly didn’t think it was innocent at all because you know that look. You did it when you met and started dating!
Your female friends tell you he’s really flirty when he talks to them and it is awkward as hell. But you swear he has a crush on you, and it is awkward, but you don’t know how to tell your girlfriends without looking silly.
3. His friends didn’t know you guys were dating for some time
If you are not even coming up regularly in his conversations, and his friends don’t even know you exist and that your mouths are frequently on each other’s, it is probably because he doesn’t want anyone to know he’s not available, which is gross.
4. He likes sitting close to women
When you go out with a friends’ group to a bar, sometimes he sits next to some other girl and never shows or mentions you. Furthermore, when you mention that some of his social behavior is really bad, he brushes your concerns aside and finds an excuse to leave the room.
