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Nairobi – Are you in a serious relationship? Here are must ask questions for you.
Who is going to take care of what and what am I going to take care of?
Helps reduce the blurred lines that a lot of couples face and the challenges that they face initially. No one agrees to do something because they already know their spouse’s income and when that happens; someone tells you, ‘So why can’t you do it?’ Just have the conversation.
How much are we going to spend on family vacations?
Personally, I do not even think that a lot of Kenyan families go for vacations at any given time. This is why I tell women to have as much fun as they want when they are still single because when you get hitched, this is going to be a budget and a schedule. You will not even be able to do some things because they will be too expensive.
Find out whether your spouse plans to even ever take you and the kids somewhere to avoid disagreements.
Have you ever declared bankruptcy and if so, for how much?
If your man is constantly on business somewhere, this is an important question to ask. This is how you find out if he is high risk or low risk. This is how you find out if he is into schemes or legit businesses. Just find out!
How many people do you take care of currently?
Just find out because there are those that sort out a lot of people even on that salary you deem too meagre. His problems will soon be your problems so just find out as soon as you can and know how much more you will be sorting on your own because his is already accounted for.
