Today with IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia is giving her relationship prep talks, she says that not all relationships will lead to marriage.
The Colombian born beautiful mother of one made this known via her Instagram page on Wednesday, July 25, 2018. According to her, many women have been deceived into thinking that every relationship must lead to marriage.
“For some reason, people (mostly females) are brainwashed to think that every relationship that didn’t lead to marriage is a”waste of time”. Where you rushing to? Let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn’t any form of achievement like some of you might think. You make yourself a Queen, no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose, but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny but without them.
“Your paths will split after their mission is complete, and that’s not a tragedy but a huge blessing. You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets, no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT Experience is the greatest source of wisdom, and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them (“all men this/all men that”) but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better. That’s the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better, to understand what you really want and what you can/can’t deal with,” she wrote.
She went on to write about how the idea of staying in a toxic relationship has made some women believe that it is a norm to be treated without respect.
“To help you learn about your own capacities and weaknesses and above all to help you open your eyes about what you truly deserve and how worthy you actually are. Without experience you are most likely to settle for any kind of rubbish treatment and poor relationship assuming its all “normal” and “the way it was supposed to be” because you simply have no clue about life and you barely know yourself so you can easily fall a victim of manipulation and COMPLETELY LOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY in process. Take your time. You gotta stop FORCING things-it can only lead to MISERY, relax, enjoy life, love yourself, follow signs and hear your guts out: whatever feels off, trust me, probably is. #soniaogbonna,” she concluded.
We all know vocal and blunt Sonia Ogbonna has always been when it comes to relationships. It sometimes feels like Sonia just loves to kill the fun for those who think all relationships are like what we find in romantic novels.
IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia Ogbonna thinks the idea of “Couple Goals” is the greatest illusion of 20th century.
Sonia Ogbonna made this known via her Instagram page on Friday, February 2, 2018, where she wrote a long epistle about relationships. She also posted a really seductive photo of herself and hubby, IK Ogbonna which will surely get fans talking.
The Colombian born mother of one discussed about her relationship and struggles after she married to her husband. She likewise discussed how she could maintain her relationship by making sure she is submissive to her husband (a word she hated). She didn’t end it without saying thanks to her hubby for standing with her.