Ghanaian counselor who Nigerian Simi insulted over her advise to women on men cheating responds.
The Ghanaian counselor, Dr Charlotte Oduro who Simi said “your head is not correct” over her advise to women whose men are cheating, reacts.
The counselor while giving women advice on cheating husbands said;
“If you are reasonable and you are working, he is cheating, let him cheat, when he finish, he’ll come because you are too busy taking care of him and making sure he dresses well. Marriage needs a lot of sacrifice, women we need to learn this. Men have ego, you can’t change it, that’s the way they are, women need to submit, give him that respect … work, let him cheat when he’s tired he’ll come. Women stop being suspicious, leave him, do your part as a woman in your home.” Dr Charlotte Oduro advised.
In reaction to the video which went viral, Simi wrote;
ori eleyi o ma pe ke. And the idots cheering her on, gbogbo yin ma go ke. If you a woman and genuinely feel this way pls raise ur hand i want to tell you something
The counselor has however responds to angry Simi’s message during a live interview on Radio. She also elaborated on her reason for giving that advice. She said;
i don’t blame her, they have past. She should never think we have not seen it before….i’ve been married for 11 years, i’ve seen relationship, i’ve gone through them but i will not loose my husband to any woman. Maybe the fault is coming from you, maybe my husband has got history from his background, we need to deal with this thing carefully. People should not just seat there and get angry because they have pains. You have pains doesn’t mean you should channel the pain to become a revenge on somebody. If the men make mistakes, you are his helpmate, women should get this right. The bible says..
…so he cheated on you today, you divorce …the next man can also do the same… lets help to get a solution to men that cheat